Episode 36: Handling Hard Emotions

“Be angry but do not sin;do not let the sun set on your anger, and do not leave room for the devil.” Ephesians 4:26

Summary:

In this episode, Elizabeth Leon, Brittany Primeaux, and Jewell Bayhi discuss the complexities of handling hard emotions during grief. They discuss how anger and jealousy manifest in the grieving process, the lies that often accompany these feelings, and the importance of confronting these emotions with truth. The conversation emphasizes the need for support, understanding, and the courage to embrace one's feelings as part of the healing journey.

Takeaways:

  • Grief has no right way to be expressed.

  • Anger is a natural response to loss.

  • Bottling up emotions can lead to physical illness.

  • Naming emotions is crucial for healing.

  • Rage can be a cover for deeper emotions.

  • Grief can coexist with gratitude.

  • Emotions need to be expressed to be processed.

  • It's important to acknowledge and express feelings of jealousy.

  • Confronting lies associated with jealousy is crucial.

  • Truth can counteract the lies that come with grief.

  • There is a time for every emotion in the grieving process.

  • Engaging with grief is an act of courage.

Discussion Questions:

  1. What hard emotions have you encountered in grief? 

  2. What helps you process your hard emotions?

  3. How are you able to turn to God in your grief instead of away from Him?

Elizabeth Leon

Elizabeth Leon is the Director of Family Support for Red Bird Ministries. She and her husband Ralph are from Ashburn, Virginia and have ten children between them - five of hers, four of his, and their son, John Paul Raphael who died on January 5, 2018. His short and shining life was a sacred experience that transformed her heart and left a message of love for the world: let yourself be loved. She writes about finding the Lord in the darkness of grief in her book Let Yourself Be Loved: Big Lessons from a Little Life, available wherever books are sold. Read more from Elizabeth at www.letyourselfbeloved.com.

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